the role of parents doesn't change much since humans civilisation begins. they always do things that they think it might be good for you , but somehow it disappointed you.
i myself have been through that,at first i thought that i wont be the one to undergo it, ya i thought that i was very Lucky, but it ended when i realize the fact that a large piece of me is missing. especially the piece of my high school's life.
in high school people participate actively in curriculum activities and they have most fun form it. when they graduate these thing will become the sweet memory of high school in them. but my mum doesn't want me to participate actively in the activeties to prevent my results from 'rolling down the hills' and so i quit going for my cadet police and my prefect board and join the 'not so active ones' which i don't like
as a result, despite i don't have the sweet memory my result go timbering down the hills. ask me why, the answer is my heart wasn't there.
so there i learnt my lesson , dare to stand up for ureself and don't give up easily just because some one Else's word as well as don't choose some thing just because they are easier,make u more popular but choose the one the u feel like going or doing and that u like it
Hmm... lucky my parent didn't blocked me to join the activities, so i very enjoy my high school life. I think your parents really put a high expectation on you especially your mother. why not you talk directly with her regarding your feeling?? this may helps.
ReplyDeleteya thanks i took your advice and it turned out well.now she understands me more...
ReplyDeleteHaha.. then good la.. ur mom love you very much actually, she is proud with with you had did until now ^V^! stay cheer!!
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